The threesome is one of the most popular male fantasies and is often revealed to be the #1 sexual fantasy in many online surveys. Recent studies indicate that 82% of men would like to try some sort of threesome but only 24% have actually indulged their desire to participate in a Ménage à trois.

For the purpose of this post, a threesome shall be broadly defined as a two girl sex party in which a male has a sexual experience with two females at the same time.

Threesomes fall into two primary categories:

1. A threesome in which a male/female couple in a long-term relationship asks another woman to join them for sex.

2. A threesome in which a man has sex with two women, neither of which are in a long term relationship with the man.

The first type of threesome has been covered in an informative post about three-way sex for couples, as the topic involves serious considerations that the couple must explore so that their experience is thoroughly positive and serves to enhance the couple’s sexual relationship. It’s the threesome of the second sort, the double-your-pleasure romp-fest, which is the focus of this article.

In order to have a stellar threesome that’s worth the effort of wrangling two gorgeous vixens to satisfy a guy’s multiple-partner curiosities, he must first understand the why, who, and where of his specific threesome aspirations.

Max Dream and Kitty from Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas, Nevada

Why do you want to have a threesome?

If you’re reading this article, you’re likely one of the 82% of men looking to satiate a craving for sex with two women simultaneously. But have you asked yourself why you have such a yearning? There are many reasons why men have a threesome fantasy, but understanding why you specifically desire the experience will help you enjoy your two girl party that much more. Here are a few reasons why some men have added a threesome to their bucket list:

• Bragging rights. Many guys measure themselves against their peers. The respect and admiration men bestow on their threesome-savvy brethren is substantial. There is nothing that strokes the ego quite like the accolades that follow a man’s tale of bedding multiple women as he and his cohorts enjoy a brew at the local watering hole. In the minds of many men, crossing the threesome threshold is of equal importance to losing one’s virginity. To be a man, one must know woman; to be a man among men, one must know many women.

• Confidence. The first step in achieving success is believing that you’re worthy of it. Many men seeking leadership positions in today’s society pursue situations that build confidence and fortify self esteem. There are very few confidence-boosters that compare to a two girl sex party. Some professional men carry the memories of their threesomes around like a locked-and-loaded sidearm, always ready when they need to summon the bravery and boldness that sets leaders apart from “lesser men.”

• Girl-on-girl action. Most men are aroused by the sight of two women getting it on. At the risk of stating the obvious, intimate activity between the two female participants is a strong component of threesome sex. A threesome is a front row seat for the best girl-on-girl porn film you will ever see – and you can reach out and touch whenever you want…

• Boredom. Some men are just bored with their current sexual situation. The same positions with the same woman month after month, year after year. Yes, let’s face it, even sex gets boring. Thankfully, the ultimate cure for boredom is four legs, two mouths, twenty fingers, numerous orifices, and more positions than a guy can shake his stick at.

 Who do you want to have a threesome with?

Once you understand why you want to have a threesome, the next step is choosing your partners. This is one of the best parts of the threesome experience because you can explore possibilities that a single sex partner could never offer. Do you want an older woman and a younger woman for that mother/stepdaughter fantasy that you just can’t get out of your head? An assertive dominatrix and a submissive schoolgirl so that you can have the best of both sides of BDSM? Or maybe you’re hankering for a “Neapolitan” multi-racial sex sandwich? The possibilities are spectacular.

Additionally, it’s key that you choose partners who compliment your particular fantasy. For example, if you’re looking to build confidence through fantasy role play you might want to choose women who delight in playing the subservient concubines to your libidinous emperor. If you’re looking for a heavy dose of down-and-dirty lesbian action, it might be a good idea to involve women who are legitimately bisexual.

When choosing your companions, the one concept to keep in mind is compatibility. It’s important to spend some time together before the sexual activity begins so that you can test the chemistry between you and your partners and be assured that each party member is willing and ready to enjoy the fantasy. As long as the three participants feel genuinely comfortable with one another, and they’re eager to explore casual three-way sex, it’s unlikely that anything can be less than absolutely fantastic once things heat up.

Where do you want to have your threesome?

Your place or hers? or hers?

Ideally, a threesome will take place in a neutral location where all participants are on equal ground. Whether it be an exotic hotel, private beach, or seedy parking lot, any locale that fits the nature of the fantasy should be sufficient — if you are among the 24% of men lucky enough to have the opportunity to live out your two girl fantasy.

But what if you’re one of the 82% of men who have not yet had a threesome despite your overwhelming desire to do so? Where do you go? Luckily, there are legal bordellos and sex resorts that cater to a wide variety of sexual fantasies, threesomes being one of them.

The Resort and Spa at Sheri’s Ranch is the premier legal brothel in the state of Nevada and it is one of the few places in the United States where visitors can experience the full range of threesome potentialities. Sheri’s Ranch has a wide selection of sex partners to choose from, offers a suite of bungalows designed for immersive fantasy sex role play, and is 100% safe, STD-free, and discreet — so that your experience is healthy and absolutely private.

The threesome is no longer a sex act reserved for rock stars, celebrities, captains of industry and Tiger Woods. We have finally reached an age where the two girl sex party is on the table for any man who yearns for unmatched carnal pleasure…and the world’s best ego boost.

Photos feature Max Dream and Kitty from Sheri’s Ranch.